So, you’ve found a threesome online and got your kinky playmates ready for some hot threesome fun… now what?
Whoever you’ve got involved (couples looking for a third, girls looking for couples, guys looking for couples, or single people looking for group sex!). it’s all about making the threesome flow with a flexible attitude. Not every position works every time! It also keeps the sexy action spicy.
#1 - Missionary for 3somes
If physical sexual contact is high on your priority list, try the classic missionary position as a threesome! This one’s for you if you’re into:
✅ Intimacy
✅ Kissing
✅ Full body-on-body threesome contact
Begin by having the ‘bottom’ playmate lie on their back. From there, have the next person straddle the first, as you would in missionary position for 2. The ‘top’ person for a threesome then kneels behind the middle playmate before sliding inside like silk to feel the warm delight of the trio encounter.
Prepare for make-out sessions. This position can include any internal penetration if that’s what you’re into, but its ability to enable you physical closeness and sensuality means things will be oozing in lust,however you choose to pleasure one another in your three-way.
#2 - The Spit Roast Threesome
Forget just physical sensations, the spit-roast dynamic provides awesome angles for your voyeuristic pleasure. This position works in power exchange BDSM threesome scenarios, since the middle submissive person can be left feeling used. Give this threesome sex position a go if you like:
✅ Dom/Sub roles during group sex ⛓
✅ Full view of the your playmates
✅ Giving and receiving genital pleasure at the same time
Here’s how: have the oral receiver kneel on an appropriate-height piece of furniture (a bed, for example), as the middle person gets on their hands and knees in front of them. The oral receiver may have to adjust their kneeling height to make the threesome more comfortable.
Once you’re both in position, have the penetrator kneel behind the oral giver and slide on in to get that raunchy threesome encounter going!
If you find yourself at either ‘end’ of the spit roast sex position, enjoy your view as the lucky middle kinkster receives double sensation via their genitals and maybe their mouth. Let’s not forget that the 2 end playmates’ hands are free to roam, too.
If lining up the angles isn't working (or you want to take a break!), the middle playmate can use a sex toy to pleasure the person in front of their face (sounds HOT!).
#3 - Double Cowgirl Threesome Position
The Double-Cowgirl is a threesome position classic - it’s easy to get into and nobody gets left out. This position provides physical pleasure and paths to orgasm. In this dynamic, one playmate’s body will be the focal point to pleasure the other 2 playmates involved. Try if:
✅ One playmate’s up for multiple stimulation
✅ You like giving or receiving intimate oral sex (face sitting sex)
✅ You like using sex toys (think sex wands, vibrating dildos, & strap ons)
One playmate lies down flat on their back. Either person of the threesome can climb on top, with one straddling the face to receive oral sex, and the other straddling the hips to achieve threesome penetration.
The bonus? The top playmates of the three-way sex can get hands on with one another, too. Sensual caresses, intimate kisses, playful grabs… Get creative and climax.
#4 - Double Penetration in Threesomes
Get ready for fullness! This threesome sex position will be double penetration to the playmate in the middle if they're capable of receiving both vaginal and anal. Try if:
✅ You’re up for for double penetration
✅ You’re into primal, wild threesome sex
✅ You’re willing to be patient with positioning until it feels right for everyone in the threesome
Have the bottom playmate lay down on a flat surface. The middle playmate can then straddle their hips while adjusting to their hands and knees into a full-penetration position. Check that this angle is workable for the initial penetration and leaves enough room for the second playmate to enter.
Once the first 2 playmates are relaxed in a satisfying threesome position, the from-behind penetrating playmate can mount over everyone's thighs to kneel with their hips touching the butt of the receiving middle playmate, ready for penetration 2.
Once everyone’s ready, the receiving middle playmate can begin with slow moves, before building up the pace in a race to threesome orgasms all round. Allowing the receiver control of the initial depth will help them to get used to feeling ‘full’ before turning up the heat as they beg for more sex.
#5 - Doggy Style Threesome Position
This dynamic is so popular because it allows for everyone in the three-way sex to receive pleasure all at once. Plus, 2 outta 3 of you will have a peachy view. Try if:
✅ You enjoy the full view of the front of each other’s bodies.
✅ You like giving, receiving, and watching oral sex
✅ You’re into easy mobility threesome sex positions
Get ready to fulfil your deepest threesome desires. Start with the playmate who is to receive oral sex, and find an in-proportion piece of furniture on which they can take their seat and spread those legs. Next, the middle playmate can align themselves on their hands and knees as they crawl between the seated person’s thighs.
Finally, the penetrative playmate can kneel behind the person giving oral sex and initiate the threeway thrill with smooth, fluid thrusts. With a bit of wiggling around and adjustment of angles to ensure that everyone is comfortable, you’ll be in for a sensational sex session.
#6 - Line-Up Threesome Sex Position
Any oral sex lovers out there? This one’s for you! In this arrangement, the giver penetrates the receiver, who orally pleases the third playmate positioned in front of them. You’ll love it if:
✅ You enjoy moaning loudly during sex
✅ You’re into creative, more demanding sex positions
✅ You LOVE oral sex in threesomes - giving and receiving!
For comfort and ease, everyone can lay on their sides, but if your bed isn’t quite big enough to squeeze all your 3some on, have one playmate bend over the bed while the penetrative partner stands behind them as the third person lies on the bed in front of them to receive oral.
If you find yourself lucky enough to be in the middle, try guiding your playmates with your hands, body, and dirty talk to let them know what speed, depth, and rhythm.
#7 - Triple Oral Sex Threesome Position
This one’s all about oral. If you’re new to finding threesomes online and/or hesitant about just diving in at the deep end, try dynamics that don’t involve penetration straight away. You’ll have fun with this one if:
✅ You LOVE oral sex - giving and receiving!
✅ You don’t always want internal penetration
✅ You’re turned on by sensual threesome touching
We should never underestimate the potential for energetic pleasure in a threesome encounter. After all, there are 6 hands and 3 mouths to work with…
Each playmate lies in a circle sequence on their side with their face at their neighbour’s crotch. Playmate 1 performs oral sex on Playmate 2 as they go down on Playmate 3, who is going down on Playmate 1. Ahhh, everyone wins!
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